My mom had a complete knee replacement on 6/17/2014 she has been home since 6/23/2014. She will not do her PT exercises she will not do simple things like get herself a glass of water. She constantly complains that no one helps her as an example she says I haven't had anything to eat since breakfast which I made for her. She only notices the thing that she thinks should have been done. I have Lupus and I am doing everything I can for her but it seems it's never enough. She lies to her doctors and tells them she is doing her PT and is doing more for herself. I am trying to stop doing the things for her that I know she can do for herself this either enrages her or she will sit and cry that no one wants to help her. I have two sisters that also live at home and they refuse to help at all. They take off during the day and go to movies and out to lunch and shopping and I am left to deal with this myself. If someone has some advice I would love some input. I love my mom very much and want her to get better but unless I can find a way to motivate her to help herself I don't know what else to do!