Every time I try to get my mother who has dementia in the shower it is a fight. I have placed colorful shower stickers all over the walls thinking it might be fear because the shower is all white. I tell her it is shower time and she says, "I am not going to do it, I will do it tomorrow!" Well, I lost it and told her okay and it would either be me or I would have to hire someone else to do it. It would be her choice. Yea right like she can make that decision. Now I am rambling. HELP!