My dad's doctor's office has made him several appointments but he has cancelled them all. He wanted to get his life insurance in place before they told him its cancer. Because then he would have to put that down on life insurance. Is what he tells me. So I bust my butt getting things set up last year with life insurance. Well its not enough $$ now for life insurance. I've talked to my dermatologist told me to get him in right away. My dad is very stubborn. He is a paraplegic. I've tried to say lets get it done - maybe its not cancer but until you go we won't know. I'll go with you. He doesn't want me to have to take work off. He has his aides put egg shell stuff and band aides over it every day. We live a couple hours away from each other. I went down this weekend to help do paperwork in his office. My dad doesn't' like anyone to tell him what to do.