I am the caretaker for my sister. She has many health ailments along with mental issues. We try to take her out for dinner, to pick up her meds, or grocery shopping, just to give her some type of life outside of the house. Otherwise she is a hermit, a slob of one, at that. I am constantly picking up after her and wiping up spills. I also have had to sent eating utensils back to restaurants we have frequented because she has slipped them into pockets and put in the dishwasher later. The other day, while taking her grocery shopping I caught her opening a box of ice cream bars, taking one out, and putting the package back in the freezer. I had to go retrieve the package to pay for it. She wanted to purchase a cup of popcorn chicken the other day while shopping. I let her (she has a glucose problem), and she began eating them and suddenly I noticed the cup was missing. I asked what she had done with it, she told me she could not remember. I backtracked the aisles until I found where she had placed the empty cup BEHIND a large jar of spaghetti sauce. Then yesterday, my husband took her to pick up her meds at he pharmacy. He thought he had kept a pretty good eye on her. Somehow, she managed to sneak a package of M and M and a container of Accent meat tenderizer. He watched the transaction at the register and neither of the items went across the counter and he looked at the sales receipt. Later, for some unknown reason, he caught her being sneaky. She was secretly going out to the garage where he keeps his grilling seasonings and she was pouring the accent into his seasonings. He came unglued. Help, what do we do? I am so stressed. I don't know what to do so that we can all enjoy an outting.