My brother who is POA and Guardian has whipped my 77 yr old Dad up and put him in a home before he is ready. Two weeks ago my Dad had an infection and was bleeding from his penis. He went to hospital and while he had this infection he was also very hallucinatory. He already has dementia so this was not looking good. As he was getting better he was very aggressive and wanted to go home to Mum. His outbursts and trying to leave the hospital, even trying to get out a window, made him a high risk patient. All this frightened my 80 yr old Mother and she didn't want to take him home. It's so sad because the whole reason for his behavior was he wanted to go home with my Mum as he frets for her and she is the only person he remembers every minute of his day. He has now been put in a home and my brother, who has a controlling nature, did not have a family meeting to discuss Dad's care. He cancelled a meeting the Doctors were going to have with the family and refused to allow my Dad to go to one of my sister's to take him to her home and care for Dad. Now my sisters and him are in the hugest personal, tit for tat, vindictive, family feud. They won't be talking with my Mum and can't deal with seeing Dad in the home, so those two people will suffer for this. It is a mess. It is terrible to see Dad not understanding why he has gone into a hospital and then taken onto a home and never being able to return home with Mum and be with his dogs. My sister who wanted to care for him has a lovely country home with many animals and I would have liked to seen him given the chance to go there. I want to get Dad reassessed or examined by a medical professional of Dementia. My Dad is very capable, he can make his own coffee, wash dishes, shower and go to toilet by himself. He has said he isn't as bad as the other people in the home and he is right. They are really deteriorated. He said he feels like committing suicide. In Australia our laws are different to America. They may even be different in each state of Australia too but I don't know how to find out. I want to challenge my brother as he is so completely unreasonable and is very much enjoying telling us he is the boss of Dad and what he says goes. Someone please tell me what legal and medical help I can get to diffuse this situation. At the moment I am sitting on the fence to calmly look at all angles. I also don't want my brother to have any ammunition against me until I can research and get the advice I need.