I need to introduce my cognitively impaired husband to the concept of staying in a facility to give me respite or in an emergency situation. I tried discussing the idea of my going out of town overnight with him. He doesn't think he needs any help, but I find he sometimes can get very agitated and confused [panic?] if left alone. He currently attends and loves a day program, so he is used to other caregivers. He can be very difficult and argumentative if I show any irritation toward him.