My 87 year old mother is a live in caretaker of my disabled 97 year old aunt. My Mom has medical power of attorney and statutory power of attorney over her sister. I have secondary poa. My Mom lives at my aunts house but is ill and no longer able to lift her sister. My Aunt is in denial about her declining mobility and ability to live at home without assistance. Her doctor is recommending the nursing home and signing paperwork but the physical act of getting her to go is the problem. Any suggestions?