my parents live in their house, my mother has alzheimers and is charge of paying the bills but isn't doing a good job of it. I live in houston tx. they are in kansas city. My mother refuses help or that they are having trouble. I have a brother that lives there close to them but doesn't want to step in because he is scared to make mom mad. They are not buying groceries and have just had their gas turned off. I don't know what to do I don't have the funds to suport them.