We've talked about my husband and I moving in with Mom and Dad for years. We all four agree that it's time and I know I'm making the right decision. My husband is spending most of his time on the east coast getting our house ready to sell or rent. I'm planning to stay with Mom and Dad four weeks at a time with one or two weeks at home in between. Dad has been Mom's full-time caregiver for years but he's starting to feel overwhelmed. After three days I completely understand why. I feel so lonely and I worry that my own health isn't up to the job. I think my most important job is just keeping them company while my mom dies, but I'd like to do it without sacrificing my own mental health. How can I make some connections in a totally new community without leaving them alone for large amounts of time?