This is a very difficult situation I'm in with my folks they live 1230 miles away I saw this coming years ago tried like crazy to get them here. Now it's a horrible mess after I went back to care for them lost my job, my insurance and 20 pounds, and my mind, in one month of being with them. Now my father revoked me as DPOA MOA not sure who is now. He drove got lost and had a horrible accident totaling his truck. He was found dazed and calling for help lost in the woods. I want to cry every time I think of that. They are both in the same nursing home temporary for now and he hired this attorney who took his money when he clearly has dementia revoking me. Now I'm at war with her for having done this to them. Last week the psychiatrist pronounces my dad completely incompetent however he doesn't know that. It's a hot mess of dysfunction and dementia! I'm not speaking with his sisters the Killer Ants I call them! They've done nothing to help my father one of them maybe the DPOA which is ridiculous done of them could fine their backsides with both hands! Sorry I get wound up!
I haven't had any luck with finding work in my home state, my friend thinks I need to give another attorney 10,000.00 retainer to file for guardianship for my parents. Now my father will try and fight this the other shyster attorney will take his money then we'll all go to court 1230 miles from my home. I want to pull my hair out, run the other way. My health is suffering I'm not eating sleeping, my body aches I'm concerned I'm going to get ill over all this insanity and I recent these attorneys getting rich on the backsides of crazy old people. So I told my friend my parents don't want my help my father thinks I stole his money never happened a 3 second audit would prove that, he thinks everyone stole something of his, that's dementia. Anyway my friend is upset I'm considering not fighting for my parents with there money. This is crazy it has to stop somewhere why do the attorney's and court system allow this to happen. THEY ARE BOTH INCOMPETENT!!!!!
Any thought's out there people? I know no one can give me the right answer. I have a trust set up for them with their savings in it, the house is not in there because the third attorney after paying him 4000.00 didn't get the title back in time before my father had a demented melt down. So this has to stop what do I do! I'm exhausted and feeling like I'm going to collapse myself! I don't think I could take them on as guardian unless they lived in the same state as I do and it was my job! Any thought's?