She lives w/my mom and mom is oblivious to this! I'm so afraid my gramma is going to take a tragic fall any day now going up and down 2 flights of stairs everyday since her bedroom is upstairs. I don't understand why nobody else sees this danger! But my mom gets upset when gramma will wear the same pants for three days??!! The stairway only has one rail and my gramma has limitations of her arm movements so she couldn't even catch herself if she slightly stumbled. I've talked to my parents to put in proper railing and it hasn't been done yet. I've even asked them to seriously consider moving to a single story not just for my grammas sake but for theirs too as they are getting close to 70. But my mom likes her neighborhood she tells me. My mom is her main caregiver and they bump heades constantly. My mom is so controlling what can I do?