Sole caregiver and care manager to my 80-year old Mom; cared for and managed my Dad's care until his death from Alzheimer's disease. Little and no consistent help from 4 brothers and their wives. I've always been the communicator of information to all family members. After years and years, in fact decades now - of begging for help, making suggestions, trying to set up regular visits or family time like scheduling a weekly meal together, etc. I quit calling/emailing/texting them. They don't communicate with me; my gut tells me they all hate me when in fact I've done nothing to any of them but for trying to keep them involved and 'keep the family together'.