He has had enough to pay for the assisted living he's in and I'm feeling very guilty I didn't look into this sooner. I live 1,100 miles away. My sister has had a history of taking money from them account. She took $8,000 from my moms account before she passed in Nov. $10,000 since Dec. out of my dad's account. I'll be going up 1st week in June and not sure my course of action. Just found out about this today and was too furious to call my sister until I calmed down! I truly do feel so guilty to have trusted her.