In addition to BPD, my Mother also has Intermittent Explosive Disorder, which falls under the umbrella of OCD. She drags her caregivers out to shop and then returns bags of unwanted items the following day yelling "Bitch" at the store clerk when she questions why Mom didn't sort out all the receipts and items before coming to the store causing long lines. Some of the receipts were from different stores. She can no longer walk very well, losing control of bowels, she's driven up on the sidewalk, memory impaired, paranoid distorted thinking, and calls 911 on a weekly basis and goes to the hospital for breathing issues. Her careprovider who just quit said she was selling her pain medication as well. I have informed her support team, and all agree she needs assisted living, but Mom is hell bent on staying in her apartment. She insists she has all her faculties, and clearly she does not. She is not going to go willingly. How are these situations handled??? She cannot stay home abusing care providers. I am supposed to take her to her doctors appt. today; I've never met him before, but today is supposed to be the big day he tells her it's time. Thanks for any support!