We found a wonderful assisted living facility nearby for mom. We took her to see it, got the tour and free lunch. Both my sister and I loved it and feel it's the perfect place for her. My sister and I have limited time to be running to mom's house to help her with menial tasks etc. and feel this is the best scenario for her. Problem is, she is happy with "Daughter Assisted Living" and sees no reason to change it, except that she is lonely most of the time. Can we actually make her do this assisted living thing or are we stuck with her decision to stay put. Neither of us want mom to live with us.