I take care of a lady 5 days a week for 5 hours a day. Her boyfriend lives with her partime, even he has a place of his own. She gets freemeals from a optage dining service, she said she really didn't like them. I asked her if she wants to discontinue them and she said yes, so I did. Boyfriend comes along and adds them back. These meals sit in her freezer uneaten til the boyfriend throws them out for lack of space. I said I would buy them, rather then see good food go to waste.
She also gets 81.00 a month for food support. Boyfriend does grocery shopping but not very well. Her parents manage finances and give her food checks 2 times a week. She would rather eat out, then eat the food in the freezer.
Like said let it go.