Throughout all of this, for the past 2 months, along with sleeping most of the day, he has dreams that he truly believes are real, and he talks in his sleep. Some of the things he says are about me and are very hurtful. Is this part of depression, the depression meds, or, my real worry, that these are inner feelings he is letting out? Has anyone else had any experience with this type of behavior? I spend a lot of time crying about this, but am I crying for nothing or are these feelings he is finally "letting out"? We'll be married 50 years this year- what a terrible way to "celebrate"!