My grandparent just had an accident for the first time yesterday and didn't even know it. (I'm not sure how you don't know in the first place, but anyway...)
I didn't even know it either I guess 'til we were at the doctor and we had to stop back at my apartment to clean her up & wash her clothes. It was the first time. Should I consider diapers now just in case?
(Also, I've realized this isn't something I can do on a daily basis. I might have to consider a retirement home for her instead of waiting on assisted living.)