hi, Since my dad's passing, mum has left home lived off a suitcase with relatives in a nearby country, and has been difficult and quite 'selfish' as such they are giving up on her. Both my sister and my spouse are terrified of her loud and demanding approach and DO NOT want her to stay with us. Mum on the other hand, while mobile but on medication, is still fiery at 80 plus and starts yelling and shouting at us for being ungrateful children, when we are trying out best to manage her finances, and well being. We are now thinking of renting a place for her, with a helper full time to keep her company( she is quite a coward and does not like being alone) or to a Catholic home where she has planned activities. Since dad passed on, she fears staying in the old home, and sort of just gave up on life, staring into blank space or spends the day snoozing. any adive for us as we are both quite stressed out , not least any next step would mean a big financial cost. Thanks.