Good morning. I have a friend who is 78 years old and is taking care of her husband who has Alzheimers. She is now having trouble with her physical health (back, etc.). Her husband is eligible for Hospice. She finally thought that she would have some support. They encouraged her to utilize the respite care of hospice...which she did. They told her to sign him in for 5 days and for her not to come to see him. This would give her time to rest her back and take a break. She did. Well, he walked out of the facility and they had to call the police because he didn't want to return. When they got him back he had an accident (bowel movement). The nurse called his wife to come in and clean him up. I don't know what this lady is going to do? Where do you find the right place for them to move when it is time. Who can you trust if you can't trust Hospice? I feel so bad for her. Any help is appreciated!