A year ago, this April my in-laws came to live with us (my husband, almost 3 year old son and not born yet daughter - she turned one on May 29th). They both have multiple medical problems. His worse then hers. Everything was fine at first but now I am either resented by both for being to in their business or I am told I'm not doing enough. He wants no help and won't help himself and she inables him, while she wants me to do everything for her. I just don't know what to do and I can't stand to see how hard it is on my husband that his Dad is being contrary just to be so and Mom is okay with it while expecting us to take care of it without her or his feeling guilty because I'm the one at home taking care of his parents and our children. I have tried telling him that its okay and that I love them so, their really our parents.