Hi went shopping with mum today and shes spent a fortune on me buying me things she cant afford I accepted one or two things but the things i said we couldnt afford she went and bought them for me behind my back I am now sitting here with a pile of clothes and dont know whether to feel grateful OR scared?? She does buy me alot but I think its because she wants to make me stay and has thrown it my face when we row "after all ive done for you?"
Has anyone else experienced this form of blackmail I feel that she is begging for me to stay and look after her by buying me stuff?
I used to feel guilty but cant anymore because I never ask for anything im finding this heartbreaking like she feels she has to bribe to be looked after?
Dont know how you deal with this?