I do not know where and if there is any legal help. My sisters and I are very concerned about my father accounts. My mom was very sick and died and it took my dad 6 years to start dating. My parents worked so hard and held great high end positions at companies and built a very nice house for retirement, but my mom never made it to really enjoy it. My dad was introduced to this woman about 4 years ago and they are now married for 3 years. She is 10 years younger than my father. At first my sister and I felt so happy for my father, finding love and settling down. About a year ago, my dad's health is going down hill. He is now confined to a wheelchair and when I go over to his house, she puts him in front of the tv and serve him food on a tray and moves him when he needs to go to the bathroom. I have to make an appt to go and see my dad. About 3 years ago, her son (recently divorced) and girlfriend came to visit from out of state due to him losing his job. They never left and it was just a visit which turned into a permanent housing for them living off of my biological parents income and assets. My stepmom is paying for her son's child support which is 1800.00 a month, buying a lot of Amazon’s items, eating out every night, restaurant knows them by name, ordering hello fresh deliveries, house is dirty with dog hair everywhere. They moved their 2 dogs into the house. Now I heard they are looking for a house keeper to clean the house. Are you serious?? What are they doing to help?? The son is 50 years old and took classes for online school and so is her girlfriend on my dad's expense. Since they moved in he never looked for a job and that is 3 years ago. When I asked my stepmom why are they not working, she said they are helping her with dad. I see they are spending crazy out my dad's account. My step mom had never experienced this kind of money before and my biological parents worked hard in their life to save and built this big house. I know my dad is married to her but my sisters and I do not know what to do. To make it even worst, I find out that my stepmom gave her son money to buy an engagement ring for the girlfriend recently. ( with my dad's money) My dad's health is so frail that he doesn’t even know what his bank account looks like now because my stepmom controls it. Is there any legal advice we can do to get control of this out of spending spree? If she knew we are seeking legal advice, our stepmom will forbid us on coming over to see our dad. Does she have this kind of control? We just want our dad's assets and money to be controled and stop her overspending for her son his now fiancé. They drink wine everyday ( bottle a day)because when my dad was healthier, he joined a wine club and I know now my dad is all sort of medications and I have noticed they give him a glass of Wine or liquor when I happened to be over at the house. We are thinking that if there is any legal ground, have the son and fiancé to move out and hired a health care nurse and stop paying for his child support and stop spending. Help any legal advice. Our hands are tied and we do not know what we can do.