My dad moved in with ME after his stroke in December of 2012. He needs 24 hour care, I left my job to care for him and the financial aspect is really been hard on me & my husband. My dad was elevated by the state and they determined he need "Moderate care" I filed for the "Essential person Program". I was just notified today that he does not qualify because his income is over the allowed limit.... My dad gets none of his "income" his wife keeps it all to maintain their house (which he no longer lives in with her) he stays with me 24/7. She gives me $100.00 a month stating its all she can afford! She does buy his depends and meds. She does not understand the lack of my income is really hitting us hard and we are finding it difficult to pay our own mortgage... Long story short.. What else is there out there that I can apply to in order to get some help... I am aware she should be doing more but unless I take her to court, (which I am not willing to do,) she won't budge!