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My Dad was in the middle of trying to get disability from the VA when he passed away. Mom has Alzheimer's and is unable to sign paperwork on her own. I have poa but va doesn't recognize that. Can I put my hand over hers and sign paperwork?
I've also found it terribly frustrating that a legally obtained POA wasn't valid for government forms. Pam has as good an answer for you as any I can give you. Often, a notary can help. Otherwise, go to you local veterans representative and ask for assistance. Good luck, Carol
Pam does have a good answer as Carol pointed out, and the situation is terribly frustrating. However, Pam isn't necessarily correct that there is no point -- you'll be the better judge of that. If your dad died of a disease or condition that came from his military service or can be traced back to that time period by his doctors -- he was applying for VA disability when he died -- your mom could be eligible for Dependents Indemnity Compensation which is more than $1,000 per month right now - although if your dad was retired from the military and provided the Spousal Benefit Plan, that money could be offset by a dollar for dollar reduction of her monthly SBP which only provides a tax break or small increase. Even with that, there is legislation in Congress to remove this "penalty." This is different than a VA Pension, which helps low income war-time veterans and their spouses. DIC is compensation for having lost a spouse due to those disabling illnesses and conditions that came from service. Contacting a Veterans Service Organization like VFW, AMVETS, American Legion, etc is a good idea, especially if your dad was a particular member of one of those. You might also consult with a VA disability attorney. Failing that option, you might want to contact your Congressman's or Senator's office.
All that said, an extra $1,000 per month might be the difference between in getting better care for your mom in many ways.
I'm with Reverseroles. I am not sure if it must be notarized for the VA. They just asked me to put my mother on the phone. How do they know it's your mother? I say help her sign.If that is all they require, give the devil his due, or give them what they want. When we try to be so orthodox and abide by all the rules, we are often frustrated.
Tough situation. As a Notary, all I need is a scribble or X on the paper, but I have to be sure she knows what she is signing. If Dad is passed away, there is no point in pursuing his disability, but you could pursue a widow's pension if she is low income and few assets. Local veteran's organizations can help you.
It might be time to go for guardianship. Especially if there will be many documents to be signed that she does not understand. Are you an authorized signer on any of her financial documents, checks etc? If not take your POA to the bank and start that process also.
http://www.medic8.com/cosmetic-dentistry/dentures/cost-dentures.html This site has a Dental guide to dentures. It's a UK site but has a great guide to many aspects of dentures. Check it out.
My FIL was a vet. I told the clerk at VA he couldn't sign. She said take the papers out. Bring them back in signed. He died before we could do that. MIL died one month later. So we didn't pursue. We were also told POA not accepted.
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Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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Good luck,
Carol
All that said, an extra $1,000 per month might be the difference between in getting better care for your mom in many ways.
If Dad is passed away, there is no point in pursuing his disability, but you could pursue a widow's pension if she is low income and few assets. Local veteran's organizations can help you.
Hold mons hand and make an x.
I am 100% sure of this.
This site has a Dental guide to dentures. It's a UK site but has a great guide to many aspects of dentures. Check it out.
Otherwise its a visit from the va and a long process to become her advocate in their eyes.
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