My husband moved his 79-year-old father in with us who has delusions. The move happened because he claimed he "sees hears, and feels" lasers being shot into his head from his neighbors. He is otherwise independent. He drives, handles his own finances, gets SS, has credit cards, etc.We have a 4-year-old and a 6-year-old and both work full time. He has moved into the guest room. My husband doesn't feel he should be involved in any of the household finances, essentially living here for free with zero expense or responsibilities. I feel he should contribute to the household and if he can't "live alone" due to the delusions, he shouldn't likely be driving either. However, my husband refuses to take control of his finances or impart other rules on him other than let him use us like a free hotel. His income, although meager compared to ours, still pays for his new SUV and whatever new tv or other things he likes, like traveling to visit family in California or gambling. I'm fed up and tired. We don't "need" the money to make ends meet, but I feel he should still contribute as a member of the the household! Any thoughts or suggestions!?!