My in laws and I have never had the best relationship. Mostly because when they visit I’m expected to play June Cleaver. About a month ago they were walking down the sidewalk and my MIL was hit by a car and killed. My FIL witnessed the accident. Very traumatic. I flew my husband to Florida from North Carolina so he could be with his dad as quickly as possible. By the time I arrived in Florida I was told that life is changing. His dad was moving in and I was expected to cook clean and care for his father. Well I own my own business and work 70+ hours a week. I wasn’t asked how do you feel about this or are you okay with the idea. Now a month into my husbands father living with us I have been asked to pack a bag and leave because I make his father so uncomfortable. Now all he does is lay (which leaves me nowhere to sit in my own living room) on my couch and cry or sleep. His bedroom is 4 feet from my couch. I also tore down my other spare room to give him his own living room. Went and purchased him a new couch and tv the whole 9. I told my husband I needed communication boundaries and a plan. His response to any of this is I’m impatient uncaring and have a major lack of emotion and it’s TOO SOON TO TALK ABOUT ANY OF THIS. I feel like I’m not only losing my husband but also my home. I left Thursday of last week just like he asked me to and I feel like my life is up in the air. I don’t know how to get my point across to my husband that I do care but I want things to go back to normal without sounding like an inconsiderate person. HELP!