Feeling really bad as a caregiver the guilt is overwhelming. I had a an argument with my Mom about some issues. I raised my voice at my Mom and my Step-dad. My Mom started crying but she cry's easily if she doesn't get her way with her husband or me anyway. I apologize saying I am so sorry that I got upset and asked for their forgiveness repeatedly, but the guilt is killing me! Please tell me is it normal to have arguments sometimes with an elderly parent you care for. I even said I am leaving and can't caregiver anymore I feel so ashamed. I could really use some advice.