I never feel I am doing a good job....like I am way more aware of areas where I feel I could have or should have done better. I am always aware of something I should have done but didn't or that I should have been more aware of. This extends to taking care of the house as well as the dog. I see where I should be better at ......whatever. If I am paying more attention to mom, the house-care and dog suffer. If I pay more detailed attention to the house-care, seems mom suffers.....at least in my mind. I feel I am neglecting her if I pay too much attention to taking care of the house. How do you come to terms with this in a way you can relax and be ok?