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When you do more and more for your loved one, he or she may keep asking for more, making you feel as though you're not doing enough, and this all adds to the guilt and anger, and the real issue is how to handle these feelings. And one of the ways is by taking some time off. Taking a break from caring can help you think things through, relieve stress and tiredness, even taking a few hours off during the day and getting out of the house can make a huge difference... And also giving yourself a day off to feel sad does not mean that you have lost control or that you will not feel positive again. Your feelings are not selfish or insignificant they are just as important as your mom...
If you don't take care of yourself, you won't have anything left to give...
My mom has been with me for 4 years in December. I have hired help to give me the freedom I DESERVE. She has no choice. She pays for it. Many agencies charge a scale according to the amount of hours per week that you use them. Also, medicaid will provide services if her income is low. Look into Senior Services. Call your hospital for numbers or call the Dr. and tell him or her the problem. Many times they have connections. I got my best Saturday night woman from my DR's. receptionist. Her connections brought us a woman who is now family. Good luck.
Linda