For 20 years I lived seven hours from my widowed mother, who lives in the Twin Cities. After spending those years near Chicago, I had always dreamed of returning to North Carolina and better weather in retirement. When I found a good deal on a home and moved there, my mother was, and continues to be, angry with me for not moving to the Twin Cities to take care of her. She is 87, has recently moved into a retirement community, which she says she hates, and is far better off financially than I am. She will not move anywhere else. We have always had a great relationship and often spoke on the phone serval times a week. Now I'm afraid too all because all I hear about is how my sister and I are ungrateful. Should I feel guilty?