Feeding tube is being considered for mom. Mom is bedbound, has dementia, and due to pain in sitting position from sacral ulcer-wound, sustained after 4 day hospital stay for DVT, eats and drinks little. Anyone have any perspective, personal experience or insight? Love my mom. She is my life. My brother and I have been her full time caregivers for past 2 1/2 years. We are not sure what to do.