About 2 months ago my husband of 42 years decided that his mother who is nearly 90 move in with us since he was afraid of her living alone. Although I am trying my best to cope she has been so miserable and nasty and mean ... she loves to gossip about me - tell lies about me behind my back to anyone who will listen ... I do virtually everything for her and she treats me worse than a slave .... I have complained to my husband but he is turning a deaf ear to me saying "what do you suggest I do with her?" I told him that we should be looking in to assisted senior living for her as she is almost completely deaf - she hardly eats anything and when she does she does nothing but complain without end about the food, the temperature, the repetition of the menu, etc .... I am myself not a well person with a heart condition, diabetes and MS. I am at my wits end ... he won't consider a senior facility thinking that putting her in that "nursing home environment" will certainly kill her ... what about me ?? Don't I count for anything ??