I live next door to dad. I was finally able to get him to the Dr for something else. She diagnosed him with dementia. He’s in denial but I understand that’s to be expected. He took a mandatory driving test and failed. Now the family want to hire him a lawyer and do not believe me when I tell them the diagnosis. I think they are in as much denial as he because they don’t see it in him yet. They do not spend everyday with him and his past memory is very good. I feel like I’m fighting with them while trying to take care of him and it’s giving me panic attacks. I feel like I will die of a heart attack before he will. All I want is the best for him so I’m trying to make Dr appts and get the family to be supportive. But it feels too overwhelming. He stresses me out with his denial and threats. Yet I feel guilty for leaving him be and spending time alone to recover. Any advice?