We've had the discussion on several occasions and he never follows through. He wears the same soiled pants for three days at a time. My house reeks. He has no problem going to church and into the grocery store in this condition. He also refuses to surrender the keys to his car and has had several fender benders this last year and has gone into the store while leaving his car running. He's putting up a huge fight and I don't know how long to continue this battle of the wills.