My father is living in a skilled nursing facility. His choice and its a place he feels safe. Money is not an issue. He was presented with other options but when it was time to proceed with them, he refused and wanted to stay there. He has done well, participating in activities and making friends. Then my brother entered the picture and for two years now, has destroyed my relationship I had with my father. Feeding his lies and telling him he shouldn't be living there. This brother has made attempts to remove me as the health care proxy and the primary contact. Lawyers have been hired by my brother for my father accusing me of spending/stealing his money (proven false). It has become so bad that my father is no longing speaking to me. He verbally abuses me and has become aggressive. The social worker has asked my brother to sit down with all of us (3 siblings) but he refuses. She also reminded my brother that all this negativity was only hurting my father. Is there any thing I can do to help my father?