My Father has slightly more money than the 80k max to receive a pension and aid for caring for his needs. 2 brothers say to give the overage to the grandkids and accept the pension and aid. The other 2 brothers say that it is fraud to give money away in order to qualify for the pension and aid.. So he just keeps wasting his own money on home care, cleaning service, landscape & home repairs,medications etc and expects all of his sons to do all these things for him no questions asked. Here is the website we printed for him and the other brothers.. . https://www.agingcare.com/articles/VA-benefits-for-veterans-and-their-caregivers-136403.htm .... Why do the 2 brothers not want this assistance dad is entitled to... How can I get this assistance for him? He agrees when he is with us, but change his mind as soon as he is with the other 2 sons.