I live outside the United States and couldn't come for my father's funeral. We participated through zoom. My father was 88, clear minded, living alone in an independent living facility. My mother had passed away 2 years earlier. He had a designated POA that his elder law attorney set up, who took care of his care needs (doctor visits, etc). The designated POA is also the executor on his will.
I don't know when in the coming months I will be able to travel to my father's grave. In the meantime, since the funeral, no one has been in touch with me. I was wondering what would become of the apartment and his stuff in the independent living facility.
Should I just wait to be contacted and updated, or reach out to see what is happening?