He is extremely independent and refuses help from anyone. His memory is becoming impaired and cannot recall things from day to day. I am constantly worried about him. He has not given anyone POA and cannot find his will. I'd like him to remain at home as long as possible, but he needs someone to clean and help him throughout the day. I am burning out. How can I get him the help at home he needs? He is healthy, ambulatory, mows his own grass, and broils a New York strip steak for dinner himself. He just needs someone to help him but is adamant he is just fine and refuses to hire anyone.