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Does he expect you to live in his home 24/7? What would happen to your current home?
Are you okay with bathing him and helping with bathroom things? He may not need much help with that now, but he will in the future. Are you able to lift him?
Would you have to quit your job? If your father remains alive for 5-10 years, how do you plan to get back into the work force after he passes? What about your own retirement?
Your schedule and life as you know it will be gone. There will be no more vacations, dinners with friends, church, dating (assuming you're single) or just going and doing when you feel like it. At some point you won't be able to safely leave him alone. And you will find out quickly that friends and family will not step up to give you a break.
Sorry to be a downer, but I see it so much on here... caregivers who may not outlive their parent because they had no real idea how rough it would be.