Father-in-law constantly puts dirty silverware in with clean. Any advice?

My mother slices open cupcake packages and chocolate peanut butter wafers with a steak knife then puts it back in the knife block....we would pull out knives and wonder what was all this brown stuff on the knives, well it's Chocolate stuck in the knife block slots...it's the demetia...believe me

my mother did the same exact thing, dementia.

how old is your father and has he been tested for dementia?

You might try hanging a "reminder" sign, if you think it wouldn't tick him off. This is really one of those "pick your battles" things. It's a hassle, but you could wash everything before you use it and that would ease your mind. Fortunately, this has not been one of the many weird things that occurs at this house!

I have seen young people do this is their 20s..I don't get it but I don't think that they will be any different in their 80's and 90's. These young people by the way also do this with dishes. Scary!!! Think it has to do with Early Childhood training.

Or I meant lack of Early Childhood training.

I think hiding the siverware is the best idea. just leave enough in the drawer for him to use and asume it is always dirty. Not worth fighting about, it goes in one ear and out the other

I know a young man with autism who does the same thing. His mom put locks on the silverware drawers, but made plastic utensils available to him on the countertop. No one else in the family uses the plastic utensils.

never mind, just read your bio....

so now the question is, how long has he lived with you and I see you say he constantly does this but for how long?

Get him a different set of silverware and you use a different drawer for the family set. Good luck, but it sounds like he may be getting worse, with age.

My mom does that! She used to be very clean but not now ugh.
Now she uses glasses, silverware, plates...........wipes them off with her fingers or dirty napkin and puts them back away - dirty, smudged, greasy. She is also constantly rummaging through my refrigerator and cupboards. Everything has been opened (with a knife) and nibbles are taken out of all. Yesterday I found her drinking out of the pickle jar. Needless to say, I feel like nothing in my house is clean anymore. Truth be told, I resent it. I have to hide my food in the basement or she's into it nibbling, smearing it around etc. My whole house "feels dirty."