My 86yo father-in-law despises children, all of them, not just mine. We currently are living in a situation where we all reside on 1 property with 2 separate units. Father-in-Law is the owner off the property where he resides in the in-law quarters and my family resides in the 3 bedroom home. My husband takes care of his personal needs and 10 acre property. I take care of my husband/caregiver, in-laws 3 dogs (as much as I can), 10 acre property and do my best at taking care of my own family of 4. Neither one of us are employeed outside the home. This has been our 25/7 job for 4 years now and before we married my husbands "job" since becoming an adult. (Im beginning to feel like my husband was born for no other reason than to just care of his father.)
Dad does not like the younger generation. He doesn't like them on his property and is demanding they leave. My daughter is 19, my son is 17, they are both step children to my husband.
Can my husbands dad force my children out of my home that he owns just because? We have had the sheriffs here a couple of times and they had us all leave. After a week I was told that me and my son could come back but my daughter was not allowed. I refused to return to a place where my children could not be and I was not in charge of making the rules for my own kids. I expressed my doors will never be shut to my children. Father-in-Law agreed to allow my kids only. No friends or family can visit. We all agreed. Every morning this man has walked in to my kids bedrooms without knocking just to make sure they had no one else in there. We put a lock on my daughters door. This morning he couldnt open it and came barging in my room demanding my daughter leave or he would call the sherriff.
So here I am, no savings with my husband being the only source of home and money and my daughter being forced out of the place I call home.
There is so much more but my family awaits. Any advice would help. ANY, trust me. I am at a complete loss.