I have spent every waking minute for the past three years doing everything for my father in law. Cooking. Cleaning. Laundry. Running errands. Paying bills. Doctoring wounds. etc. Now he is telling everyone he sees how much he dislikes me. How do I continue to visit and cope with these feelings. I have never asked for even so much as a thank you - but, this is something I did not expect. Mild dementia and short term memory loss is making me step back and not say anything to him, but, I am feeling so hurt. How do I cope?