I had distanced myself from nasty father over the past 2 years with no contact with him. I had written to this forum a couple of weeks ago just before he passed away last weekend. My siblings are resentful of the fact I walked away from him, though I offered to assist financially. Last Saturday afternoon, one of my sisters messaged me to inform me that my father had removed me as co-executor of the his trust and that my brother had been assigned in my place. Less than 24 hours later, I received another message from my sister, "Just wanted to let you know that Dad passed away last night". I've had a mix of emotions over all of this during this past week. First, I had been angry with my father's disrespectful behavior towards me over the years - both verbal and physical abuse. I'm also confused over the fact that my sister let me know this about the trust very last minute. I can understand why my father excluded me as co-executor since I no longer had a relationship with him. My worry is that I am now excluded as a beneficiary. Since the subject is too raw - and too soon to even bring up and would cause even more resentful feelings towards me, how do I find out - or am I able to find out if I am still a beneficiary? There are four other siblings in all. No one is speaking to me, so very difficult for me to even ask. I have a copy of the original trust that was drawn up years before when my Mom asked me to be a co-executor. She passed away 4 years ago.