My father was diagnosed with Alzheimers and my SM refuses to help. She had her name placed on his savings acoount and has now taken all his money. I have POA and we are trying to get back. She refuses to help with his meds, Refuses to have any caregivers come in and help him. Refuses to make him dinner, Refuses to let my brother and i help. She cut off the house phone. My father has a cell but messes with it and half the time it doesnt work. My SM screams and yells at him about everything. screams at him if his family visits. and so much more She has even gone as far as to call the police on me in an attempt to have me arrested for assault. Which never happened. I contacted dept of aging for help. They are trying to get my fathers money back. But now she has told my father that the agent from dept of aging is trying to put him in a nursing home and that they are liars. My dad is now mad at me, SM has told him that i lie to him and that I took his money etc. We have tried to get him to move in with either me or my brother, but he is use to his home and knows it. But i just dont know what to do. Its stressful and i dont sleep at night worrying about my father. Any options, opinions, etc i will take. Thank You.