I feel defeated nothing I say works, what now? My grandma is stubborn and thinks that she knows what is best for my grandpa when it comes to his insulin dosage - she makes up numbers that are not even on the chart given by the doctor. Her and 1 of my uncles continue to feed my grandpa fried chicken, fried fish, bbq ribs, french fries, pizza and so forth. I provide detail info on the best foods and worst foods for diabetic but.....my grandma and 1 of my uncles thinks he can have whatever he wants. When his blood sugar is high - they think that it is good because they rather have it high than too low. I provided them info on why high blood sugar is not good but it goes in one ear and out the other. My grandma herself is not well - she has a brain tumor and doesn't want to get it removed because she thinks it won't solve anything, she has gastritis and won't give up soda or coffee, she doesn't take her meds daily like she is supposed to and there is nothing I can do to make her take them because again, she knows best and she thinks the doctors are stupid. My anxiety and stress over the fights I have with my grandma about following doctors orders is causing me to fall in a depression because I feel defeated. I'm at a lost, does anyone have any helpful advice or have experienced the same type of situation?