Family members out of the blue come over and take over is about a red flag.

Is this related to the trust issue about which you posted separately? It does help, you know, to provide answers to questions we ask so we can get a clear understanding of the situation. I spend some time trying to figure out the situation in which you asked about a cousin who wanted to get a trust executed so the house could pass to her, apparently directly. It wasn't a clear cut situation, but it was never clarified as you didn't respond.

That's what he said to do . couldntput his name on the account because he is bedridden he is the one that closed it he is the one that told the bank what to do all I did was walk into the bank and the bank did what he asked them to do

The red flag popped up when you put his money into an account in your name.
Really, Tim, you need a good defense lawyer. Tomorrow.