My dad and I cared for my grandparents for years. Last year my grandpa died from Alzheimers & in December my dad passed away (cancer sucks). My grandma suffers from dementia and I wasn't able to take care of her on my own anymore. She started hallucinating more and would call 911 every night. Once my dad died, power of attorney automatically went to my mom. My mom never liked my grandma and my siblings never helped take care of my grandma. They would only come to visit her to get their annual birthday checks. When my grandma moved into assisted living, my mom decided to completely re-do my grandmas house for my sister to live in. I'm talking a whole new house renovation basically. (New kitchen, ceilings, flooring, bathroom makeovers, knocking down walls and refurnishing the house). All of this was money taken from my grandmas account who has no clue what is going on with her own house. I then noticed that my mom bought 2 mac laptops using my grandmas money for my siblings. I called her out on it and said that it wasn't right for them to do that. Especially because they haven't visited my grandma or even bothered to give her a call. I go to visit my grandma every other day and my family just says my grandma is "not their problem". But they have no problem with spending my grandmas money for their pleasure. Am I overreacting? I feel like this is wrong and something should be done. My biggest fear is my grandma running out of money to pay for the assisted living she is in right now and not being able to provide for her. Any tips on what I should do?