I'm the eldest, single child (of 4), parents age 82. Asked 3x for basic info "just in case". Not about $. No one else has asked. No answer. HELP. We have deep history of dysfunction w/in family. I'm being treated for PTSD for emotional abuse. I have liver disease and have had a transplant, but have complications. My other sibs are married and have never asked. Just a phone #. I just want to be prepared, but I a) refuse to be default on this by sibs b) am unwell myself and could not take care of them need be c) only response from parents is that I'm "silly", or my mother said 2x she'll outlive me anyway d)i'm given a blank look while they walk off the field. What do I do. Whole family knows that physically and emotionally I am completely unable to care for them. That being said, I cannot or will not be the fall guy should an accident happen. My motive is practicality and an attempt to avoid any situation that cld have been avoided or planned for, ESP to protect myself. I would think parents would want to make this as easy as they could for their children. Question a) is the withholding of this info abusive b) what do I can I do c) do I need to document this to protect myself legally should this happen.