I am writing on behalf of my husband today. 4 years ago his parents were in an accident. His father passed and his mother survived with a traumatic brain injury. At the time there were no family members to take upon the task of power of attorney. My husband left college to come home and get her through the process, and get her home. After months and months of care facilities costing $$$$, he was able to get her into her house he was in before the accident. She had to have 24/7 care givers as she is a fall risk upon other needs as well. She has 3 siblings that live 2500 miles away and were never there for any part of this process (icu,care facilities,funeral). They have always questioned my husband about money and where its going. They had a double mortgage on their house and the siblings were worried about that. So my husband sold her house and got rid of the payments as they were worried. He then purchased a home that we both moved into with her so we can help take care of her. we slowly took away home health care at her siblings request as they said we shouldn't spend the money. I was working full time and my husband was taking care of her as I would every moment I wasn't working. About 10 months ago the siblings decided they wanted to come after us for the money. They sat us down and said they would put us on a salary and they would now take over the finances and leave my husband as medical power of attorney. My husband refused unless they would be willing to take on the full responsibility as power of attorney over his mother. They said that they were not in a good position to care for her but just handle her money. After my husband refusing, they threated to take us to court. They then reported us to adult protective services. Adult protective services have contacted us twice with a lot of questions and subpoenaed the bank records. We never heard anything. We also got one call from the attorney generals office asking my husband to come in for an interview in which we gave them our lawyers phone number and declined the interview. We haven't heard anything since then. About 2 weeks ago my husband wrote a resignation of power of attorney and sent that his mother. It was not an easy choice to make but felt this was the only option seeming how they have turned her away from the two of us. They responded 2 days ago demanding all assets to be returned to her .real estate,saving,checking,vehicles etc. We have none of this. In fact we still paid for her bills after we moved out of the house. We are still currently paying. We are reaching out for some help/advice on how to make this come to an end and not live in fear of these people. We were never paid/compensated for the care we provided, we were just doing the right thing for his mother.